Being misunderstood is common in relationships and it is always followed by clarification of your point so that you are not misunderstood anymore. But there are times when you dont care if the other person got you or not. In this case, we dont even bother to make any clarification. The other persons perception does not really matter to you so you just let it go.
On the other hand, there can be another scenario where you do care for the other person enough to want the person to think well of you and you wished that you could make clarifications to be at peace. Even when it looks easy enough, it can get complicated at times. What if sharing the truth(clarification) might actually cause more harm to the person. Sometimes it is like that, even though you can get out of the mess, it might mean more hurts or even trouble for the other person. Sometimes we love the other person enough to bite the bullet and be the bad guy for loves sake.
What hurts more? When the other person shares the ill informed fact about you to others and that makes you look even worst as a person to more people. Love or reputation? What do you do? I guess thats life, take a position and stick to it.
As for now, I rather God alone know all truth and that I might be found pleasing in HIS eyes alone. Learning to not bother about peoples opinion over you. Its hard!!!
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